15 of the Best Questions to Ask on a First Date

1. If you could travel anywhere, right now, where would you go?

If the answer is “nowhere”, you’ve got yourself a hermit. If the question elicits a string of destinations, you’ll discover what excites and appeals to them.

2. What's something I wouldn't guess about you?

This question has a bit of mischievousness and flirtation about it and you’re giving your date the freedom to reveal as much, or as little, as they want.

3. What's your dream job?

You’ll find out what motivates and inspires them, while discovering values and character qualities that may (or may not) match yours.

4. If you didn’t have to work to support yourself, how would you spend your time?

This tells you about the other person’s values and interests. If they don't match yours, better to know now than later on down the road.

5. What appeals to you most about living here?

You'll find out what you have in common, or don’t. If you find that you do share common interests, you have an arsenal of ideas for future dates.


Real the full list of 15 over at Cosmopolitan!


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