The 13 Things All Couples With Great Sex Lives Do, Out of The Bedroom

Inspired by the Normal Bar study, as well as research studies on more than 3,000 couples over four decades, YourTango.com has found that if these 13 components are present in a relationship, things can get pretty steamy behind closed (bedroom) doors.

1. They say “I love you” every day and mean it.
2. They kiss one another passionately for no reason.
3. They give surprise romantic gifts.
4. They know what turns their partners on and off erotically.
5. They are physically affectionate, even in public.
6. They keep playing and having fun together.
7. They cuddle.
8. They make sex a priority, not the last item of a long to-do list.
9. They stay good friends.
10. They can talk comfortably about their sex life.
11. They have weekly dates.
12. They take romantic vacations.
13. They are mindful about turning toward.